She walked in with a folder full of labs from her primary care physician, a year of work with a functional medicine practitioner, and a list of every supplement, food restriction, and lifestyle modification she'd been put on along the way. Conventional medicine couldn't help her, so she sought someone who would test more, look deeper, and treat the cause.
That practitioner found things, treated them, and now here she is, telling you the same story in a tone that's running out of hope. Somewhere along the way, she's spent eight thousand dollars, and she still wakes up exhausted, still cycling through the same flares she came in for.
She doesn't want a miracle. She just wants to feel how she felt ten years ago. She just wants to have the energy to play with her kids, the motivation to advance her career, and the ability to find joy in the things she once loved.
She's looking at you now, hoping you can help. Your first instinct is to do more testing. Then you ask yourself if that's the right move, considering she already has thousands of dollars' worth of tests.
The last thing you want is for her to repeat the cycle she's already experienced year after year. But without a clear framework on where to go, that's exactly what most practitioners end up doing.
If you're honest with yourself, you suspect she'll be sitting in someone else's office a year from now, telling a longer version of the same story. But you don't want that for her. You want her to be healthy.
After all, that's why we chose this career path.
So what are you to do? This is the situation most practitioners don't see. You get positive reinforcement when things work out.
But what about the patients where this isn't the case? Sometimes they tell you things aren't better. Most of the time, they just quietly quit your practice.
There's no follow-up, and you assume that they must have felt better. The reality is that they moved on to someone else, and they're going to keep repeating the cycle until they finally find someone using an entirely different operating system.
This isn't about your effort or your testing. Uncovering what's wrong has become a sophisticated craft and the center for most programs on the market.
Unfortunately, almost no one trains practitioners in what comes after: the deliberate, sequenced work of moving a patient from dysfunction to health. Not health by our standards, but by the patient's standards. So they can finally live the life they've been working so hard to live.